Why My Stylist Daughter Hates When You Say “Wash” Instead of “Shampoo” Your Hair

If you’ve ever been in a salon chair and casually said, “Can you wash my hair?” and seen your stylist’s eye twitch, trust me, you’re not alone! As the proud mom of a stylist (yep, I’ve got a daughter who's an expert in all things hair), I’ve learned there’s a huge difference between “washing” and “shampooing,” and it’s a conversation I’ve had more than once with my daughter.

Here’s the scoop on why my stylist daughter—and most professionals—really dislike when clients use the word “wash” instead of “shampoo” when talking about their hair.

1. “Wash” Is Just Too Vague

As someone who spends their day behind the chair, my daughter knows that "wash" can mean anything from wetting your hair to running a conditioner through it. It’s just too vague! On the flip side, when you say “shampoo,” that’s a more precise, professional term that means you’re asking for a proper cleanse.

Stylists want to know exactly what you’re looking for, and shampooing is a step that includes using specific products to cleanse your scalp and hair. Saying "wash" leaves too much room for interpretation, which can lead to confusion during your appointment.

2. Shampooing Is Part of a Process

Shampooing isn’t just about getting your hair wet—it’s a key part of your hair care routine. When you say “shampoo,” you’re acknowledging that your stylist will be using a product that’s designed to cleanse and remove buildup, oils, and dirt from your hair.

For my daughter, “shampoo” means a targeted approach. She might use a clarifying shampoo for buildup or a moisturizing one for dry hair—whatever your hair needs. "Wash," on the other hand, could imply just getting the hair wet and doesn’t reflect the intentional process of cleansing and treating your hair properly.

3. Professional Terminology Matters

Like any skilled professional, stylists like to use the proper terminology. It’s not about sounding fancy—it’s about clear communication. When you say "shampoo," you’re speaking the same language as your stylist and signaling that you understand the importance of using the right products for your hair type and needs.

When clients say "wash," it’s not that they’re doing something wrong, but it’s less specific. My daughter, like other pros, likes it when clients use terms that help her deliver the best results, and “shampoo” shows she’s on the right track with you.

4. Shampooing = Results!

The biggest reason my stylist daughter would rather hear “shampoo” than “wash” is because shampooing is the foundation of good haircare. When you say “shampoo,” you’re asking for a deep, thorough cleanse, which makes the rest of your service more effective. The right shampoo sets the stage for the products, treatments, and styles to follow, ensuring your hair looks and feels its best.

Saying “wash” just doesn’t carry that same level of intentionality, and honestly, it can set your stylist up for a little extra work in making sure your hair gets the care it really needs.

 Speak Like a Stylist!

So, next time you’re in the salon, try saying “shampoo” instead of “wash” when you’re talking about cleansing your hair. It’ll show your stylist that you understand the process, and it’ll help ensure you get the best treatment possible for your hair. Trust me, as the mom of a stylist, I can tell you that little words go a long way in making the experience even smoother.

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